Evil parenting?

Anyone here have evil parents? If so post some of their crimes.

I'm in a bad mood becase of them.

My mom is evil and she hates me because she wanted a girl. She always lies on me lol and my dad always believes her no matter how much proof is against her.

Today she shredded a homework assignment and claimed I didn't do it!!!!!!!!!!


Now she's saying how I'm evil and I need to go to military camp.

Me.

so go to the military, n after they~~~~~~~

I used to think my parents were bad but theyve gotten alot better. Anyways one time my dad was paranoid bout me using the phone and tapped the phone line and recorded every conversation as soon as the phone was picked up.

Anime Goku wrote:Anyone here have evil parents? If so post some of their crimes.

I'm in a bad mood becase of them.

My mom is evil and she hates me because she wanted a girl. She always lies on me lol and my dad always believes her no matter how much proof is against her.

Today she shredded a homework assignment and claimed I didn't do it!!!!!!!!!!


Now she's saying how I'm evil and I need to go to military camp.

Well at least she told the truth.

My parents also suck.

Why?

Spoiled brats.

uuuuuuuuuuuggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh, i swear i hate this guy

umm, most of us are adults here... and besides that... ugh, nvm... fuckin nazi...

S| DeRa wrote:Spoiled brats.

I don't know about everyone else, but I have my reasons for not liking my parents. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm grateful to them for taking care of me, but as I see it, they didn't have much chance. It's a biological need. As humans, they would always look after me, no matter what. I value my friends much more than my family because of that.
Bonds that you create are much more important than bonds that are forced on you.

Yes, I would never attempt to physically harm my parents either sure I'm taking care of myself but dang it' I'm soon going to stop visiting them as often. My mom has a lieing problem

My god awful step mother in name only does many things to make me angry;

- She always thinks I'm wrong and she's right.

- One time, I lost to Seth on SFIV and said a realtively quiet "Oh man!" she rushed in and yelled at me for "Shouting and ranting at my games"

- She forces me to give her rent every bloody day. She even says I owe her more money than I actually do.

- She knows I HATE large crowds, so what did she do in January this year? She invited over 30 people to the small apartment and they were all roaring drunk off their asses.

- She snores loudly all night long and then complains about me "yelling out in my sleep".

- She tries to say things to make me worry.

- She goes through my things all the frikkin' time. Even though I tell her to not go into my room, she stil goes in and throws out lots of my stuff and moves things around.

- She forced me to move house in 2006. She could TELL I didn't want to move, but no, we HAD to! And she tried to make me feel bad about it when I wouldn't pack my things up, saying such bullshit like "are you trying to kill me!?!?" She had this really awful "Haha! We're moving because I know that you don't want to and you don't have a say in the matter!"

- She pressurised me to get a job since 2003 (when I was still in school) and then gives long monolugues in this lame ass voice in which she "can't keep on supporting me, it's too hard on her".

- Asks for really really REALLY expensive things that I obviously cannot afford on her Christmas Lists and then acts disappointed when I can't get them.

- She pressurises me to do a Christmas List every year and doesn't even buy anything on it. It's always a bunch of cheap DVD's that I don't want.

- If I ever buy her any chocolates for Christmas (usually ones that are on her list) then she never easts them. In 2007, I bought 3 boxes of the ones she asked for. She left it until over a year later to open them and then just threw them away!

- She hates EVERYTHING that I like and constantly tries to take the piss out of them. Yeah, uh, when you watch shows like Big Brother and other shite, then you shouldn't be dissing the things that I like. DBZ's on the TV and she walks in spouting "Whats this shit!?"


And trust me when I say that this is just a taste of what she does.

aww, poor nikku. I'm sorry she's so evil to you! Tell ya what, I'll convince my mom to adopt you and you can live in the attic : 3 although I think we have wasps up there...but I'm sure they won't hog too much space X D

JessicaRaine wrote:aww, poor nikku. I'm sorry she's so evil to you! Tell ya what, I'll convince my mom to adopt you and you can live in the attic : 3 although I think we have wasps up there...but I'm sure they won't hog too much space X D

Nikku move in with Jessie!!!

*Scampers up into Jessie's attic with my suitcases and begins giving names to all the flies*

Nikku wrote:

JessicaRaine wrote:aww, poor nikku. I'm sorry she's so evil to you! Tell ya what, I'll convince my mom to adopt you and you can live in the attic : 3 although I think we have wasps up there...but I'm sure they won't hog too much space X D

Nikku move in with Jessie!!!

*Scampers up into Jessie's attic with my suitcases and begins giving names to all the flies*

*brings up some milk and cookies* how do ya like your new place? watch out, the wasps sting.

ewww I hate those things...
(we're unsure if they live in the attic or not, or if a couple just randomly enter and exit in the summer)

Man you'd be lucky Nikku. My mom does all that crap too Nikku! I wonder if were related? You have a big brother nah just kiddinh I live in Atlanta

Man I hate my mother.

She abanded me and my dad to run off with another guy.

It all started as she going on a simple trip, 10 days later she phones us and says shes not coming home.

Then she has the nerve to try and call here to say she loves me. Like the hell.

HOLY CRAP. thats so messed up...

Poor justin.

JessicaRaine wrote:HOLY CRAP. thats so messed up...

Yes, very messed up indeed.

Venus wrote:Poor justin.

By this point I have put her behind me and moved on. I'd likely hall of and punch her in the face if I seen her again.

Woah, poor Justin man sorry dude

lol1991 wrote:

S| DeRa wrote:Spoiled brats.

I don't know about everyone else, but I have my reasons for not liking my parents. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm grateful to them for taking care of me, but as I see it, they didn't have much chance. It's a biological need. As humans, they would always look after me, no matter what. I value my friends much more than my family because of that.
Bonds that you create are much more important than bonds that are forced on you.

Are you for real?
I mean, ok, Justin really has a problem in his family and even he is trying to move on.
What's wrong with your parents? You're wrong if you take their care for granted. A lot of kids get abandoned, get molested, beaten up...they don't have nothing to eat and there is nobody to show them the right way to live. So the street and their so-called "friends" (which are also neglected by their parents) are the ones to teach them.
I know that the only thing that I can rely on is my family.

ningen wrote:

lol1991 wrote:

S| DeRa wrote:Spoiled brats.

I don't know about everyone else, but I have my reasons for not liking my parents. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm grateful to them for taking care of me, but as I see it, they didn't have much chance. It's a biological need. As humans, they would always look after me, no matter what. I value my friends much more than my family because of that.
Bonds that you create are much more important than bonds that are forced on you.

Are you for real?
I mean, ok, Justin really has a problem in his family and even he is trying to move on.
What's wrong with your parents? You're wrong if you take their care for granted. A lot of kids get abandoned, get molested, beaten up...they don't have nothing to eat and there is nobody to show them the right way to live. So the street and their so-called "friends" (which are also neglected by their parents) are the ones to teach them.
I know that the only thing that I can rely on is my family.

In my view, parents that abandon or hurt their kids are not human, not even of the animal kingdom, so they should be put to death, plain and simple. Their like bacteria, they mean nothing. Every animal in the true sense of the word, takes care of their offspring until they are ready to face the world. It's common biology. Humans are the only ones fucked in the head enough not to do it, and so, these people need to die. I would kill them myself, believe me.

And you want examples. Here's one

I've been going to bed a bit late, and my father tells me I shouldn't...ok fine, it's fine he's right. I loose track of time on the PC...when he tells me, I just go to bed cause he's right. But today, I didn't wake up in time and missed my first class. Now, he starts choving it in my face he was right...obnoxious, but he WAS right, so I just keep my mouth shut and take. Then comes my mother, and tells me that we have lots of money problems and I should help where I can. By this she means I have to study so I can go to college. Three problems with this.
One: I don't work
Two: I already do help out. Before the whole problem started about 3 years ago, I used to go out with my friends a lot, but a lot of stuff. Now I rarely waste money, and I'm always home on the computer so I don't bug anyone. I just want to be left alone. I rarely hang out with my friends, that I see like more of a family then my real family, etc, etc, etc.
Three: I'm not that bad of a student. I have a good average by my schools standards.

Then, she has the nerve to throw in my face my brothers are all helping...they are both int their 30 and don't live here and still help, and then tells me that the younger of the two is having money problems and is having problems with his wife...and she does this to make me feel guilty for going to bed late...now this is one of the least terrible things my parents have done. Mind you, my mom seems worse, but my dad was strangely quite this time around.

Want another?

My dad calls me a bastard (cabrão) whenever I don't do what he says...I mean WTF? How can he call me that?
And until recently my father was an alcoholic...he drank a lot, and always came home and provoked my mom. I just staied quiet, then out of no where, my dad starts talking about how I will flunk the year...when I'm in the extreme green zone. Then he starts calling my mom a whore, etc, and my mom starts saying that my dad is a women beater and that he used to hit him...makes real sense.

All this contributes to me not opening up to anybody. I don't want my friends to think I make a big deal out of this, and tell me it's drama etc (I'm only saying it here cause it's the internet...no way anyone here will ever find out who I am.), I can't help the occasional comment about how my parents suck, and my friends start saying I should be more polite...and get a bad view of me.
Then in closing, I'm afraid that the alcoholic thing is a genetic issue, so I can barely relax. Even worse with smoking. I hate it when my friends smoke, cause I'm afraid they'll turn out like my dad, and I don't want that to happen to them.
Only recently have I started drinking. The one time I got truly drunk, I kept apologizing for stupid things like spilling ice cream...all because I didn't want my friends angry or upset over me.

So now, want to talk about it Ningen?

ningen wrote:
Are you for real?
I mean, ok, Justin really has a problem in his family and even he is trying to move on.
What's wrong with your parents? You're wrong if you take their care for granted. A lot of kids get abandoned, get molested, beaten up...they don't have nothing to eat and there is nobody to show them the right way to live. So the street and their so-called "friends" (which are also neglected by their parents) are the ones to teach them.
I know that the only thing that I can rely on is my family.

nobody owes their parents anything for not molesting/beating/abandoning them, u have a choice of having kids, using a contraceptive, gettin an abortion... theres a whole lot that goes on before u actually have a child and its not a childs choice whether he/she wants to be born or not. the way i see it parents ARE SUPPOSED TO BE GOOD PARENTS!

@lol'91 ans secor
(Of course I want to talk about it, we're here to talk)
First of all- We are not animals. You can't kill people because they abandon\molest their kids. That's just the basics of the civilization.
I haven't said that you owe something to your parents. I said that you shouldn't take family\love\care for granted. By law they must take care of you but a family is a lot more then some relationship based on a law(nature or civil).
Your problems, believe it or not, are rather similar to those that majority of others encounter. For example- I have experienced everything you just said. And don't get me start on the money problems...
I believe that the abortion is a way of abandoning your kid, and I'm against it. But in the same time people will tell me:"But women have the right to chose..." And that's when we come to the most important part- yes, yes they do. So, I have the right to chose the path for me, to do what makes me happy. If I abandon my kid...well, hell, my life comes first, right?
At the end of the day, my parents are there for me. Friends come and go, even if they help you, they will often do it only to a certain limit.
"Parents ARE SUPPOSED TO BE GOOD PARENTS!"
People are supposed to be good people, good friends, good husbands and wives but a lot of them are not. They chose their own way and sometimes that way is not the right one...
I didn't ask to be born (well, according to my religion I haven't)but I'm grateful for that, I'm grateful that I have a place to call home, I'm grateful to have something to eat, I'm grateful for having such parents who worked their buts off just so I could have a normal childhood. And I feel so sad when I think about all those kids that don't have that. That don't know what family is. They maybe have friends, but only they know that that is not enough. And I don't even want to talk about those that abandon their parents, brothers, sisters or even worse- those that murder their own son\daughter or father\mother...any relative.
When I see that I'm grateful to have a family, people who are there for me, and not just because they have to deal with me. We fight a lot, but they also mean a world to me.