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Post by ningen on Mon May 04, 2009 1:57 am

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ningen wrote:@lol'91 ans secor
(Of course I want to talk about it, we're here to talk)
First of all- We are not animals. You can't kill people because they abandon\molest their kids. That's just the basics of the civilization.
I haven't said that you owe something to your parents. I said that you shouldn't take family\love\care for granted. By law they must take care of you but a family is a lot more then some relationship based on a law(nature or civil).
Your problems, believe it or not, are rather similar to those that majority of others encounter. For example- I have experienced everything you just said. And don't get me start on the money problems...
I believe that the abortion is a way of abandoning your kid, and I'm against it. But in the same time people will tell me:"But women have the right to chose..." And that's when we come to the most important part- yes, yes they do. So, I have the right to chose the path for me, to do what makes me happy. If I abandon my kid...well, hell, my life comes first, right?
At the end of the day, my parents are there for me. Friends come and go, even if they help you, they will often do it only to a certain limit.
"Parents ARE SUPPOSED TO BE GOOD PARENTS!"
People are supposed to be good people, good friends, good husbands and wives but a lot of them are not. They chose their own way and sometimes that way is not the right one...
I didn't ask to be born (well, according to my religion I haven't)but I'm grateful for that, I'm grateful that I have a place to call home, I'm grateful to have something to eat, I'm grateful for having such parents who worked their buts off just so I could have a normal childhood. And I feel so sad when I think about all those kids that don't have that. That don't know what family is. They maybe have friends, but only they know that that is not enough. And I don't even want to talk about those that abandon their parents, brothers, sisters or even worse- those that murder their own son\daughter or father\mother...any relative.
When I see that I'm grateful to have a family, people who are there for me, and not just because they have to deal with me. We fight a lot, but they also mean a world to me.

Dude seriously, I wish you could get it. And what's worse, when I think like that, I feel like you're every day teenager that hates their parents guts for no reason than just being "the rebel" kid. It's not like that. To start I don't hate them, and of course I'm grateful to them, but I still say it's something that was forced on me. I like them, all the better. I don't then I'm screwed. But they do things sometimes that are just so flat out fucked up, that you really have to see to understand. And don't tell me friends come and go. If it's real friendship, it just doesn't come and go. The problem his people assume that any friend his a true friend...and end up with a wrong concept of what "friend" means.

And about that whole "we are not animal"...yes we are. In our deepest core, we are, and we still have all our instincts. People that assume otherwise are considering themselves superior to other living being, and are wrong. It's that kind kind of thinking that as landed us in the position we are now. I'm a naive person, but I now what I believe, and one of those things is that we are nothing but animals that caught a break in the evolutionary process. We got thumbs and some brains, and we assume we rule the planet. If we didn't have guns, I'd like to see us against some of the planets predators.
I understand you, well the part about parents...that part about "we are animals" is a total BS. But you're young and you'll learn. So I won't even discuss about ridiculous stuff you wrote, because I'll be only wasting my energy trying to explain you some things.
You talked about true friendship. I do believe that true friends are those that stand by you. But those kind of friends are rare. And what's even more important- members of my family are my true friends. I also hope that my future wife will be my best friend because that comes first for me. So someone who is your best friend and a lover, I think that's a solid foundation for a long-term relationship.
People do crazy things, I know that. And it's even harder when those people are your parents, I know that too. I do crazy things too. But unlike my father I'm not focusing only on all the negative things my grandfather did as a role-model.

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Post by VEGETA_DTX on Mon May 04, 2009 5:20 am

Well if there is ONE thing that is good with my crappy life then its parents, family and friends ^_^

I am really happy with my parents, I can't be more satisfied seriously!
Sure many times, especially in past, I got so mad on my Mother cause she is simply just like Chi Chi Smile THE SAME...always killing me with her talk about eduction always always, learn! learn! learn!...for her it seems that school is more important than ANYTHING in this world, JUST like Chi Chi Smile

But oh well I know she does it all for my good of course, therefore I don't count such things as not being satisfied with my parents at all of course.
(yeah sure ask me this at the moment of arguing with her about my studies Razz just kidding of course ^_^)

And I am really sorry for those of you who are not satisfied with your parents or even worse if you hate them Sad I badly wish I could help you somehow.
It happens often today, I just hope it will end up the best way for you and for them.
Anyways here is the place where you can confess Smile really nice topic!

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Post by Venus on Mon May 04, 2009 6:03 pm

u guys should ask saiyan slayer bout his parents. Very Happy
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Post by justinlynch3 on Mon May 04, 2009 9:28 pm

saiyan slayer, tell me bout your parents man.

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Post by Venus on Mon May 04, 2009 10:43 pm

Ooh ooh! Ill tell ya cuz he sucks at explainin things. He never met his real dad, his stepdad is a total jerk, and his mom is crazy and bipolar.yay!
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Post by Tlaloc on Mon May 04, 2009 10:57 pm

My mom is also crazy, but everyone believes she is a saint.

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