Stupid f**king family...

They’ve done it again. I think that their sole purpose in life is to ruin mine. So around the middle this year, my (apparent) father who I’ve not seen for over 10 years, phoned to complain that his dad (who I’ve never even met before) had died. My god awful step mother (in name only) decided that she was going to go to the funeral which was about a 5 hour long drive away. She also decided that I was going and said that I had no say in the matter. A few days before I had to go, my (again apparent) half brother, who used to annoy the s**t out of me when I was younger phones up, for some reason trying to get back into my life even though he and everyone else knows I didn’t want that. So he keeps me on the phone for hours and hours and he didn’t shut up. He even said that he was going to force me to go the pub with him and get drunk. I don’t drink (I’ve never touched a drop in my life), but no he wouldn’t have that.

So then he has the nerve to tell me to write his phone number down and then says “Read it back to me” in a stupid demanding sort of voice. Naturally, after he’d finally shut his mouth, I threw the number in the bin. A few months later, he phones again and then quickly says he has to go (literally, I just said “hello?” and then he says he has to leave).

Then, my aunt forces me to be his “friend” on Facebook, a site which I was forced to join by her as well. And she PROMISED me that I wouldn’t have to see him in person. Guess what. They’ve invited him round here, behind my back from next Thursday till Sunday night. Naturally, I was hurt that they’d lied to me and now my f**king stupid step mother is trying to make me feel like the bad guy, saying crap like “Oh, he has no mother!” and “Oh you’re so mean to him and childish too!” and “If you don’t like my decisions then I’ll kick you out of the house!”.

What a bunch of s**t heads. I’m serious, they’ve lied to me and treated me badly for the last time. You know you’ve got a bad family when you care more about your friend(s) than them. I even care more about everyone here than them.

Seriously, shut the fuck up!!

So basically, you have your dad, who married your stop mom. Your brother from your fathers side (like that right) tells you he wants to talk to you. Stupid him for never behind around blah blah

My dad threatened to blow my door open today with a fucking gun. He refuses to let me ask for a scholarship with living arrangements included, saying he wont give me the necessary documents and threatening to screw the thing if I get them through my own means (and he can, as he knows people in the college and in the system), and he just blamed my for smoking his first cigarette in months. Also, he's drunk, like always

All this, and it's 2:40 am, I have college in the morning. I can't fucking sleep, as I'm a nervous wreck right now.

On top of that, the bastard drove me to tears for making me realize that I'm prone to depression and don't do anything about it...and that's the reason I have no friends...I'm insecure enough about the no friends issue without my drunk dad telling me to my face...

seriously Nikku...give your brother a chance. Just try. Get drunk with him, or at least pretend you're a light weight and just drink one beer and make yourself look drunk. You've never drank before so he doesn't know your tolerance. And as for your step mom, just do what she wants, and she'll eventually lay off you. Parents tend to be controlling. It's their thing. So as long as they don't pull guns on you, it's okay.

Geez that was rude to say to Nikku; and to think my family was terrible.

Admiral lol1991 wrote:Seriously, shut the fuck up!!

So basically, you have your dad, who married your stop mom. Your brother from your fathers side (like that right) tells you he wants to talk to you. Stupid him for never behind around blah blah

My dad threatened to blow my door open today with a fucking gun. He refuses to let me ask for a scholarship with living arrangements included, saying he wont give me the necessary documents and threatening to screw the thing if I get them through my own means (and he can, as he knows people in the college and in the system), and he just blamed my for smoking his first cigarette in months. Also, he's drunk, like always

All this, and it's 2:40 am, I have college in the morning. I can't fucking sleep, as I'm a nervous wreck right now.

On top of that, the bastard drove me to tears for making me realize that I'm prone to depression and don't do anything about it...and that's the reason I have no friends...I'm insecure enough about the no friends issue without my drunk dad telling me to my face...

seriously Nikku...give your brother a chance. Just try. Get drunk with him, or at least pretend you're a light weight and just drink one beer and make yourself look drunk. You've never drank before so he doesn't know your tolerance. And as for your step mom, just do what she wants, and she'll eventually lay off you. Parents tend to be controlling. It's their thing. So as long as they don't pull guns on you, it's okay.

Your dad has some serious problems.
I don't understand- he doesn't want you to move out from the house, so he won't let you ask for a scholarship with living arrangements included? But then he has to pay for your college, right? And he's ok with it?
Does he possess an unregistered gun?

What the hell, Lol. That was uncalled for.

Uncalled for my ass!! Never assume things unless they are given in front of you. I didn't start hating my family until proof was given to me that they were god awful people.

Give your brother a chance. if he is a prick, then hate is guts. You say he was never around or something. Then how do you know? And I'm not even talking about your stepmom. She seems like a piece of work

And, to close, yes Ningen. He wants me to ask for one without living arrangements, so I have to stay under is roof for as long as he can manage, because he knows that if I DO manage to get that scholarship, I will never step foot in this house again. Furthermore, he says that I'm being the bad guy cause I'm making my family waste more money on me, when it's him that's fucking up the issue. And the gun is registered.

Lol, why are you acting so horrible all of a sudden? Calm down man.

And my Step brother (like I mentioned in the first post) annoyed the hell out of me. He'd rush in and start jumping on the bed when I wasn't well. He'd pick up pieces of my food and then just put them back on the plate, after not washing his hands from going to the bathroom. He'd purposefully ruin his own clothes when visiting and then I'd have to give him some of my own. He'd break my stuff. He blew his nose on my pillows one time and if I hadn't have seen him do it, then that would've been not very nice at all.

And er, in case you've not been paying attention to my other posts about why my family sucks, there has been plenty of proof that they are god awful people.

Could it be that lol's account was hacked?

he did that himself... :\

and maybe he is pissed with his situation too... its normal..lol

Welcome to the world of depression. Come and partake of my hoard of pills, people.

Bah....I was just pissed alright? Having your drunk dad throw gun threats at you and then saying YOU aren't mature enough to live alone does that to ya.

Anyway, I also didn't read well enough. When did your brother did this? Like...when he was 10...the it's null and void man, cause...at that age I did those kinds of stupid things

Anyway, whatever...your family sucks...welcome to the club. Want some bacardi to wash the shit away? It's what I do

I don't drink alcohol.

no no no just take prozac, wellbutrin and trileptal...and some clonazepam on the side. That should work, admiral. : D

yea, lol is probly just bipolar...

both of ur families suck ok. both of u just need to get emancipated and rent out a room somewhere. get welfare, government checks, funding, whatever, just do what u need to do to get out of those shitty situations.

I dont think lol's dad would've really shot down the door. Then he would have to fix it and spend money...unless he wants to see Lol naked when he's changing.

ur f**king hilarious

F BOMB! RUN!!!

I don't know how old Nikku is, but was your family always like that to you lol. You should have called child services on there asses, I damn well sure would of.

Wonder if Nikku is also overprotected/sabotaged by his family like me.

I remember several occasions when Nikku's parents should have acted differently. But in this case they did nothing wrong. Funerals should not be taken lightly.

Ah ah very funny Venus


Here's something to think about. One time, my older bro and my dad had a HUGE fight. In the end, my dad left for the night and left a bullet in my bro's bedside table.

My dad's a crazy psycho when he's drunk. I wouldn't put it past him firing a gun for a chance to keep me under is control.

So fuck off Venus alright? This isn't shit to joke about.

ningen wrote:I remember several occasions when Nikku's parents should have acted differently. But in this case they did nothing wrong. Funerals should not be taken lightly.

i definitely disagree. why go to a funeral for someone you dont know? furthermore, why make someone else go to a funeral for someone they dont kno, make them take a ride thats 4 sad hours long, to sit through a sad ceremony and ride 4 more sad hours back? thats just mean

Man, that's just how the whole family thing works.
"Why go to a funeral for someone you don't know?"
You'll go to a funeral in that case because that person means something to those close to you who do know him. Only a selfish and egocentric person wouldn't go, which isn't a big deal, of course, the world is full of such ppl, but at least don't complain about it.
"why make someone else go to a funeral for someone they dont kno"
Because his still his grandfather in this case. It's a normal thing to do, I would go, even if I wouldn't have any other reason I'll go because of respect (that I have for my parents and my ancestors). And it's a normal thing that he is invited.
"make them take a ride thats 4 sad hours long, to sit through a sad ceremony and ride 4 more sad hours back? thats just mean"
Oh the humanity! Oh the poor thing! What happened to all the values of society? His parents are monsters, in fact his grandfather died on purpose so Nikku couldn't play his PS3 that day...puh-lease secor.

Admiral lol1991 wrote:Ah ah very funny Venus


Here's something to think about. One time, my older bro and my dad had a HUGE fight. In the end, my dad left for the night and left a bullet in my bro's bedside table.

My dad's a crazy psycho when he's drunk. I wouldn't put it past him firing a gun for a chance to keep me under is control.

So fuck off Venus alright? This isn't shit to joke about.

Actually I was serious about the fixing the door thing cuz he sounds like he has a shotgun or something. But if everybody's going to get their boxers in a bunch then ill keep my mouth shut. (btw I don't think Nikku HAS to go to the funeral. It would be respectful but it doesnt mean he should be forced to go.)